Little David's First Hanukkah!

Happy Hanukkah!


First Hanukkah!

Well, this is Little David's first Hanukkah as you can see on top and to the left.

There is much to be thankful for - that's for sure.

Little David is doing great, born at 7 pounds and now 8.7 oz already - so he is eating like crazy; (and pooping too - so all systems are go literally and figuratively).



Festival of Lights

Just thought I would take a minute to share our family Festival of Lights celebration.

Menorah & Dreidels

Here is our menorah on the right - one candle represents the first night (the shamis or candle on the bottom is used to light each candle each night for 8 nights - yes 8 nights of gifts kids you got it right). Summer and baby are in the background - busy as you can see.

Now for the dreidels (or tops) - some are low tech and traditional and some are very cool high tech dreidels. Never had these cool high tech dreidels when I was a kid. I got the dreidel for Summer (sure David - but who is playing with it all night?).

See the letters - if you get hay you get half of the gelt or chocolate money, if you get nun you get nothing, if you get gimel you get the jackpot, but if you get the shin you give to give it all back - what a drag! What it reminds you of life - what a surprise - a Jewish game without some deep reality or message to it. What were you thinking?















Gifts

Oh yes - there were gifts. Sarah did great - tons of stuff from Victoria Secret - now how old is she again.













Dad got a Daddy Diaper Dootie outfit (with diapers and wipes and junk).



















Summer got some cool massage oils, that high tech dreidel remember (and Bitsy gets a piece of the action too).




End of the Year

Nice to end the year so positively (minus those late nights little guy - but we don't mind - he is actually a pretty good sleeper (during the daytime)).

Happy Holidays from the Fetterman Family!

Like Father, Like Son - Pyloric Stenosis

What a day!

Ok, let me backtrack once again.

I have been up for over 40 hours watching this little one. He has been vomiting every time we feed him. The first tip was that it was projectile vomiting. However, he was hungry after he vomited. I followed the same pattern at his age as well. Our first thought, or the top of our list in our differential diagnosis was pyloric stenosis. Pyloric stenosis is a blockage between the stomach and the small intestines - the muscle gets so thick that it does not let food pass through it.

We saw the pattern and knew we had to go in to the hospital - even if it were not pyloric stenosis - the little one was only 13 days old and could get dehydrated pretty quickly (then it would be even harder to get an IV in or anything).

So I drove him to the hospital in the morning. Summer drove Sarah (now 15 years old) to school. Quickly we agreed we needed to go back to Lucille Packard's Children's Hospital where he was born for an ultrasound to confirm (or rule out) the diagnosis.

They were great in the Emergency Department. I remember evaluating it a million years ago. They confirmed the diagnosis and the decision was simple - surgery. Surgery at only 13 days - this kid has gone through a lot in a short life-time - but this was going to be life saving. Luckily we had moved fast before he had gotten dehydrated or worse.

Like Father, Like Son

When I had it, they fooled around with adjusting the formula for a few days and I lost 3 pounds that I could not afford at the age. My father said "the heck with this" and wrapped me up and drove through the snow to Children's Hospital in Boston - another great hospital.

I was so small at that point, they simply put a flashlight to my abdomen in a dark room and confirmed the diagnosis. So like father, like son. I wrapped my little one off to run to the hospital (but this time around I had a pretty good guess about the diagnosis). And like father, like son - my little one had the same condition I had. We had followed a tradition (but this time with somewhat less stress and some forewarning or insight into the problem). Here are my son's scars (very tiny scars in the making) and mine (which has grown along with me) - now is that sharing or what at an early age?



















In any case, back to my son's story. We entered the emergency room. They finally found a vein - hard with these little ones. The are small and curve around so quickly.





Neonatal Intensive Care Unit

Then off to the NICU - neonatal intensive care unit.

It was packed with other little babies - I mean really little babies (premies). Some of their problems made you really appreciate how lucky you were. Some had heart conditions, others were as small as my fist. One couple next to us were waiting for a heart donor. Our life condition (although life and death if untreated and somewhat complex 50 years ago), was doable and considered in some ways routine in comparison.

So, we met the anesthesiologist - Dr. Elliot Krane. He was our neighbor - what a surprise. Great guy. He agreed to take some of the pictures for us during the operation. Here is a picture of Little David getting ready for the operation.

Amazingly, a little (very little) incision was all he needed. Here is what it actually looks like with a bit of magnification. Karl Sylvester was his surgeon and you can see the quality of his work below:


Now a days, it is laproscopic. They go in there without disturbing everything and make the cut. In my day, they pulled everything out a bit to work on it which created more stress on all the neighboring organs. Today, the operation takes about an hour including prep and recovery. The little ones can eat the same day and go home the next.

All is Well

Little David was a text book case. He ate already and tomorrow - home he goes. What a journey life is with little ones? It takes you to a whole new world - once again. There are moments when nothing else matters, all appointments are cancelled and are less important. You are reminded of what your primary responsibilities are all about - watching over them (even if it is literally watching over them for 40 hours straight). In any case, all is well and he will not remember a thing (except I will remind him endlessly with a copy of this blog when he is older).

Thanks

For now, all I can say is - many thanks to everyone who helped us at every stage and one more thing: Good Night (at 3:55 am).