Big Boy David Fetterman II (formerly Baby Fetterman)

Google Tahoe Trip - David is Back Skiing Again -

2012-01-30T09:38:00.000-08:00

Google Tahoe Trip 2012. David is back skiing again (twice in one month). He is going to think he can go skiing any time (of course he already thinks that).

Last Wednesday (in the middle of the week), he says "can we go skiing right now?"

What a sense or reality this kid has. I can't say I remember living in this kind of bubble as a kid but I guess we all lived in our own version of the bubble. I was happy. I think we used cardboard for sleds but I didn't know any better. We had a blast.

(We just happened to go a few weeks ago to get ready for this trip, since he had never skied before and we were a bit rusty too.)

As you can see from the helmet, the goggles, and the expression on his face, this man is ready.

In no time, this man was going down the slopes (on mid-mountain - our level). He didn't hit the cones (which is more than I can say).

No worries, mom and dad had fun too, while David was in skiing class all day. Its ok - we watched him from the gondella while we were going up the mountain. He was fine.

They are actually great at Northstar. They take the kids for the entire day - teach them, feed them, and watch over them until it is time for us to pick him up at the end of the day. Not a bad deal while you are enjoying the scenery and the fresh air (and focusing on how to ski again).

The view was spectacular from the top. (Lunch was good too.)

Check these moves out - Big David is getting there.

I am coming at you.

Now it was time for dinner and we took some time to see some old friends that I have not seen in over a decade or two. Harvey, Leslie, and Charlie.

Charlie is married now with a little one already - unbelievable. Last time I saw him he was a student at Stanford. It was nice meeting his wife and son too. Of course, they are all learning what real sleep deprivation is all about with a new born.

It was really great seeing Harvey and Leslie again and catching up. (Oh yes. thanks for a great dinner and what a dessert - those brownies were fantastic.)

David had a ball playing chess with Charlie and tending to the fire.

2nd Dinner (a bit later in the evening)

Summer and I had a second dinner back with the Google team when we got back to the group house. Duck confit. It was great with a pomegranate sauce.

The conversation was fantastic too. We kept talking late into the night - intermittent reinforcement, Milgram's study (I was in it), qualitative research, and a host of things we had in common. We had fun.

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Day 2

Day 2 was back down to earth with flying saucers. That does sound funny doesn't it - down to earth/flying saucers?

David (as you can see) has no fear.

But the little man bit the dust (or the snow in this case) and found out just how cold snow really is. He got snow up his sleeve. "Dad. Ow. This really hurts. Ow." No problem. We took the mittens off and pulled the snow out and all was good again, but it provided an opportunity for an important lesson about why we bundle him up.

He had no idea just how cold snow could be when it creeps into your life. Now maybe he has some insight into why I don't really see ever moving back into that climate again - not full time anyway.

Connecticut was nice growing up, but I think I have done enough snow shoveling in that bitter cold for a life time. I remember doing all that shoveling just to have the road snow plow pile it right back up, blocking the driveway again. You would just look at that pile, shake your head, and pick up the shovel again. You had to get out right?

Well enough down memory lane. Back to the slopes - ok the hill.

Summer, Ryan (a friend from Google), and Michele (his girl friend) follow David's path - with a bit more fear in comparison. I think Michele just lost the snow ball fight, but what a good sport.

I survived the saucer and the snow ball fight. David has a great arm - luckily the snow was still powder so he couldn't get me too badly, but that did not stop him from trying. He is a crazy man in the snow.

But eventually it was time to start hiking back. I for one was getting hungry. Luckily he wanted some hot chocolate too. So off we went hiking back in the snow.

We decided to have lunch at Gar Wood's on Carnelian Bay. It was beautiful, sunny, and yes still a bit cold. I had the crab cake sliders, with mango salsa on the side. Summer got the chicken sandwich, which I almost got.

You guessed it. David ordered the macaroni and cheese, by the lake. What a view. The lake was nice too - but the real view was of the two of them as we sat down to lunch. The lake just made a nice backdrop to something a bit more picturesque.

It was a nice way to end a Google family vacation.

The Breakfast Race - David Style

2012-01-12T09:56:00.000-08:00

Breakfast - David Style. You may ask why are we talking about breakfast. Well if you have kids (or have taken care of them) you already know the answer. It is a race to get them to do anything.

First, he either waits for me to wake him up (and then says "boo" because he is already awake and just wants to scare me) or he comes and wakes me up with a "boo" just to show he can beat me. In either case, is he dressed? No way. Has he brushed his teeth - no way (except today - so lets give credit where credit is due).

Has he gone to the bathroom - well today he was great. Most of the time it takes a gentle reminder - especially if he wants to jump into bed with us in the morning.

Ok, ok - we are supposed to be talking about breakfast right. (Not really - breakfast is just a metaphor for life with this little man. As you will see, even getting through breakfast is a feat.)

As you can see from the video below, we have turned breakfast into a race. We see who has taken the most bites of food between the two of us. He says its fair that I get distracted making him breakfast and preparing lunch for school (and making my own tea and oatmeal), because it gives him a chance to get ahead of me. Thus it is fair? What school is he going to?

In any case, I let him know that I can still beat him even though his waffle is on his plate with grapes - while I am stirring my oatmeal - because he gets even more distracted. So - we count how many bites each of us have taken to see who is ahead. Hey - don't knock it - it works.

Ok - lets talk distraction. While I am making his waffle he finds a need to do something. It could be Monopoly - but today it is word games (luckily). The last innocent Monopoly game lasted 2 weeks. So while I am trying to get him to eat breakfast he is still playing his word games. (I am not displeased they will be more psychologically sophisticated word games when he is a bit older. I can still handle this level - I think.)

In any case, how can you get upset with a kid who wants to practice his letters and words in the morning. Well - when you have to race to get to work yourself and make sure he is ready for the trip to school with his mom you do want him to actually finish his breakfast - sometime in this century.

Ok - now he has me distracted. He spelled all these words and said they were "too easy." This man is really making progress. Ok - now you can see how he gets me distracted and wins - beating me at breakfast every morning.

What's the lesson? It is simple, we all are in the same boat. Kids are kids. They live in wonderful world of their own. But it can drive you completely crazy if you lose perspective. It goes by so quickly - so get frustrated, but once in a while just enjoy it and appreciate this fleeting moment in time.

Skiing in Tahoe - David Does It Again

2012-01-11T16:49:00.000-08:00

David Goes Skiing. Is 5 years of age too young to ski? Apparently not. His helmet goes on and this man is ready to go.

At this age there is no fear. Of course, he is already pretty close to the ground so the risk does not seem as great to them.

David progressed from Galaxy Level to Mid-Mountain in one day. What is going on here?

He even went on the these lifts (with his instructor).

We all went up this one - so mom and dad get some points right?

We even went to the top (at least for lunch).

No worries. Mom and dad skied while David was hard at work. Mom made it to level 3 and dad barely made it to level 2 (same as David and remember he is only 5). This could be a bit rough on the ego. But I did snowplow enough to slow down, turn right, and turn left. All of those on purpose. I also did a fast 180 turn and stop with skis parallel. But that was not really on purpose. It was the only way I knew how to stop. It looked good. The instructor was not too crazy about it.

In any case, no broken bones, no frozen toes, and David, mom, and dad had a great time in the snow.

The Grand Canyon

2012-01-03T00:06:00.000-08:00

The Grand Canyon. This is the train ride to the Grand Canyon. It was low key and relaxing for all of us (David, Mom, Dad, Grandpa Mark, and Grandma (Heather).

David loved the Grand Canyon. He found it enchanting just like we did. "It is so deep." I think he meant deep like in feet not metaphysically or philosophically - but who knows.

David saw this as an opportunity to throw the first snowball of the season - at dad!

He is also a budding photographer - ok - he was using the zoom to see as far down the canyon as he could see. Tomorrow we will teach him how to shoot but I shutter to think what he will focus on. (Did I really say all that?)

Are we happy? You tell me. When is the last time you saw a smile like that. Little one's remind you of unbridled joy - something we adults get to cluttered and encumbered to experience and share so openly.

Mom takes a moment to just sit and enjoy the scenery.

Grandpa Mark and Grandma (Heather) were also captivated by the beautify of the natural wonder.

The train ride was entertaining. The music was great.

This is David's photoshop version of the same shot. He asked me if he could do it and he thought it was a blast. He is sharing this with his classmates in kindergarden. He was pretty proud of his creation.

Watch out. Train robbers. We had to explain how this was make believe to David (about 6 times). Bottom line he was thrilled that they did not take his stuffed toy rabbit.

The train ride also had some side benefits for David - like snowball time again.

Time to relax and just sit back and enjoy the natural beauty of the life we are living together.

Not to mention the buggy ride that evening.

We understand why everyone enjoys the Grand Canyon - it will take your breath away.

Happy Hanukkah 2011

2012-01-02T23:32:00.000-08:00

Happy Hanukkah 2011. David remembered a little more of the blessing this year. Baruch atah adoni, elohanoo melech ha olum.

He remembered the shamus to light each candle and he never forgot what night it was. Of course, would you forget if you got a gift every night.

Speaking of gifts - we got a piano for the family. Summer is learning how to play again, using YouTube. David is taking lessons - complementing his violin lessons.

It is wonderful hearing music in the home. It is the sound of family (during Hanukkah and throughout the year).

We also played dradel and David loved the Hanukkah gilt - once again, how many kids do you know that would turn down chocolate candy coins (any time of the year).

It was a wonderful ritual - that carried over to our trip to the Grand Canyon (see next posting).

Best wishes - we are healthy, happy, and together - there are few more valuable blessings.

Lunch Date with Sarah, David & Dad

2011-12-21T22:26:00.000-08:00

Lunch with the Sarah and David. David was thrilled. The teachers said he talked about it all morning. He was going to go out to lunch with his Dad and with his sister Sarah.

We met at Bowman (Sarah's old school). That was an unexpected adventure for Sarah.

The teachers remembered her including the head of the school Mary Beth. One of the kids in Sarah's class now teaches at Bowman.

David was so proud. He introduced Sarah to each and everyone of his classmates. Luckily they were having lunch so it was easy to go from table to table, but he did not miss a beat.

We were hungry too so we left the school for lunch and went to David's favorite place - Counter Burger. You can build your own burger or chicken sandwich with all the fixings including dried cranberries, apricot sauce, you name it.

We shared some great conversation. David showed Sarah a few twisty tricks and recited the blessings for the Hanukkah candles to show how much Hebrew he already knows. He was very pleased to hear that Sarah knew the blessings too (which also made Dad feel pretty good too).

All in all - just a lunch with the kids but what a joy!

Birthday Party David Turns 5

2011-12-05T00:32:00.001-08:00

David Turns 5 years old.

So we rented a jump house - what else do kids love to do. Ok - we enjoyed it too. But we are getting ahead of ourselves. The jump house was supposed to arrive at noon. It arrived at 9:00 am. It got things started a bit earlier than anticipated. Not just for us but our wonderful and very friendly and accommodating neighbor had to move his cars out of his garage so they would be accessible during the day since we were taking over the street (with his permission - but we expected it all to begin around noon not 9 am). He was a great sport but we all had to scramble.

Ok - we all had some fun once the jump house went up - yes that's David and me at the end of the slide inside the jump house. We are all smiles because he said: "Dad you try it with me" and I did to his endless amusement.

Oh, did I mention after the jump house went up and we had some fun before all the kids came, Bitsy decided to run away (that's our dog). So for an hour I had to track her down as she had fun teasing me - going a little ways until I caught up with her and then darting away. Oh yes, the day was really starting out with the ultimate workout. Eventually I wore her out and she stopped and I had to carry her back half way. Yes this was quite the unplanned exercise routine and there was still plenty to do to get ready for our guests (17 kids and their parents).

In any case, the kids started coming and they had a ball. (As an anthropological aside, it was interesting to see which parents (mostly dads) just left their kids off and which one's stayed to watch their kids (and guide their behavior in case of a potential meltdown) - but as I say while you could see a difference in the kids behavior (controlled/uncontrolled, destructive/polite and careful), they were fine, just an interesting aside or observation.) As you can see, David was oblivious to this anthropological note and loved having his friends over - jumping like a maniac.

The man with no fear - down he goes again.

After the jump house it was time to play in David's playroom. I think they loved it just as much as the jump house. We were impressed with David. He let everyone play with his toys. When one of the toys came crashing down on the floor or something looked like it might have broken he was fine with it. No meltdown or temper tantrum. He just rolled with it. Sharing - what a concept. Who would imagine he would reach this point of emotional maturity before age 30.

The kids were playing non-stop. I guess the toys were age appropriate. I was going to have them review galleys of my next book - seemed like a fun idea to me at the time - the anticipation of a new book coming out - kids love books. We read to David every night. But for some reason I didn't think Summer would be crazy about that idea. My guess is that she figured they might be too harsh as critiques of this book - which is dedicated to the little man. Hey I can take it - on the other hand kids can be pretty rough. Maybe it is better to stick with the age appropriate stuff for now - for my sake.)

As you can see, it was almost impossible to get them to move to the next activity anyway (how is that for an a hasty retreat on my earlier more scholarly suggestion for the kids).

In any case, the next activity came and how do you resist a Pinata? Especially after they smack it open and all the candy comes pouring out. (This is always a treat - keeping the kids from accidentally hitting each other or pushing in line - but it worked out and no one got hurt. The call to 911for bumps on the head from falling candy was just a test - really.)

Cake time finally came - nothing like a bit more sugar right? What did we care - they were all going home again and we knew their parents would really appreciate the impact of the sugar rush they were going to receive for the rest of the night. Kind souls aren't we. Its ok - it was Baskin Robbins ice cream cake. That's healthy right?

You will find our traditional Happy Birthday celebration song below with candles.

A couple of the kids took a detour after the cake and went upstairs and what did they see? What was all that yelling about: "Come on up!" "You gotta see this." "Come up now."

Turkeys - wild turkeys. I forgot about our wildlife neighbors. They made it past Thanksgiving and were pushing their luck strolling around the back yard now. It was the height of the party for some of the kids.

Well just when you thought the party was about to end, who appeared: Magic Mike (a wonderful magician who is great with kids and adults too - he adds a tiny bit of subtle sarcasm to the performance that keeps it interesting for the rest of us not-so-little folks).

The kids loved him. He took the proverbial rabbit out of a hat. Novel you say - you try it. David and I are learning magic tricks and that one is something else - another order of magnitude as it were.

There were the classic balloon tricks too.

There was also the magic napkin hat trick - a real birthday party favorite. (If we had know about it in advance it would have saved us some money on the party hats.)

[Take a look at this video below to see his magic trick and tell me who you see in the mirror on the stairs - looks like mom watching from way up there.]

There was also a dog that ate David up and he loved it. You try and figure out what makes these little guys laugh some times - a dog eating your head. They all loved it - what can I say. That one was over my head. I am used to a dog-eat dog world but kids, what is this world coming to.

Well the festivities eventually came to an end. We said good-bye to everyone. Each kid got their gift bag filled with cool toys that Summer pulled together and David went through his gifts methodically matching gift to name to prepare for the long list of thank you notes.

One of the gifts was a set of bug glasses - you see what a bug sees though those lenses. It was late enough for us to say "night, night - don't let the bedbugs bite" and actually match his demeanor. Mom ends the day with a kiss with this little bug.

Shortly after, mom and dad called it a night too. What a day? Not too bad for 5 years old. Do you remember having a birthday like that - we sure didn't but what the heck. The parents had a great time and the kids just loved it - even David.

When we put him to bed I asked him what the best part of the day was and he said: "when the magician took a baby sucker out of your ear"..."that was funny dad." So that is what he remembered from the day. If that's all he really remembered I would be fine - a funny image of dad - a big smile - not too bad at the end of the day. (Luckily he also added the bounce house as one of the hits of the day. Good think - we almost needed a permit to put the thing up it was so big.)

Well, thank you for being a part of his (and our) life as well - if only from a virtual view. Happy holidays!

2011-11-26T08:49:00.001-08:00

Happy Thanksgiving 2011.
Yes - another year to be thankful for. Summer has just prepared a wonderful Thanksgiving meal. Turkey, sweet potatoes, green beans, rolls, and gravy (not to mention that pumpkin pie). It is our first Thanksgiving in the new house.Is life perfect? Well you tell me. The little man wakes me up at 6 am, even on the weekend. I am not a morning person. Ok - I wasn't a morning person until the little man showed up at the door step. Who does he call in the middle of the night because his covers fell off the bed and on to the floor. You guessed it. But who also loves to get tickled in the morning and run up the stairs to beat me to his bath every night. He loves that race (that is so carefully orchestrated to get him upstairs and ready for bed and the only price is that I have to lose the race each and every evening - what a shame). Yes we are talking about that same little man, who lights up a room (even if I am ready to take a nap). So maybe we do have plenty to be thankful for - just being a part of this little man's growth and development as a human being on this planet. We get to see what he sees - seeing the world though a child's eyes - happy moments, sad moments, amazed and bewildered all within moments of each other.Speaking of the little man, here we are making the ornamental turkey for the Thanksgiving table. Somebody find the glue to make this go a little faster (or as he says "Dad, this is taking forever").

In the meantime, mom is getting the table set - nice dinning room. Look at that silverware, passed down from one generation to the next.

David is kept busy with his recent obsession - Monopoly. He has hotels and houses on all of his expensive properties. He is something else. Mr. Capitalism. Of course, we used to play this game as kids too - for hours - of course this is now our 4th day of the game (a real marathon). That is my set of hotels on Connecticut - where I was born. Mom is quietly working in the background during this massive (and ongoing) distraction.

Ok - now it is really time get ready for Thanksgiving. David is willing to take a break from his lucrative game to help mom out but that smiles makes me think he is up to something. We will probably find out a few days from now.

In the meantime, we sit back enjoy the meal, the left-overs, and yes more and more Monopoly. Is life perfect? Well he could sleep in a bit later and maybe let me win one race to the bath at night. But all in all, we appreciate what we have - a life together - and we are thankful.

Stanford Violin Recital

2011-11-15T11:46:00.001-08:00

Stanford Violin Recital. Yes - this is David's big day at Stanford.

Ok one of his big days - many more to come. (Parental pressure - moi?)

Mom helped him prepare (with a lot of practice - month after month - but also tightening his bow at the moment).

The older kids got the ball rolling with a lovely piece - very accomplished. Something I guess for us all to look forward to down the road. Smart way to set the stage, as it were, for us parents.

Listen to them for a few seconds and you will see what I mean.

Then it was time for the real stars to preform.

Up comes David on to the stage.

(He is middle front left - you know the little blonde kid).

In case you missed him, here is a close-up.

Oh you wanted to hear him. Ok. Get ready (and click below each picture).

It was quite a joy to listen to.

(Two videos of his performance. They are short. They will appear in a separate screen and might take a minute to download so be patient - it is well worth the wait.)

Twinkle Part I

Twinkle Part II

What a performance! I told you.

You thought I was kidding.

What an experience. David's Stanford debut.

What a great recital and a wonderful way to spend the afternoon.

A milestone for him. A moment of enchantment, escape, and pure joy for us.

Ok - we are a little proud too. He is a very special little boy.

Halloween 2011

2011-11-01T17:53:00.000-07:00

Halloween 2011. Yes - we have a young, very young Sigmund Freud. For school he had to be an historic figure of some note from Europe. So we got him a (very inexpensive) suit, shirt and tie combination and just in case no one guessed (because of his age and hair color - not exactly white), we made a sign identifying the character. He had to explain what Freud did - famous Jewish doctor who fixed minds. He "introduced psychoanalysis." Interesting how David never took the tie off - sounds a little like dad I think.

Of course, it does hurt his image that he is doing well (very well) at chess in that outfit. He beats me (but mostly when he takes my turn as well as his own). I love it when I checkmate him and he is taking the turns for both of us. He takes chess class on Fridays and absolutely loves - really loves - the game. He knows all the pieces and all the major moves (and plays morning - for breakfast - and before or after dinner). I taught him how to transform a pawn into a queen. This is a dream come true for him.

Speaking of transformer. By day he may be Freud, eminent psychoanalyst, but by night he is a Transformer - so beware.

We made the rounds through the new neighborhood and he made a killing. Speaking of which some of the houses in our neighborhood were really scary - take a look.

Before the Halloween walk Sarah Skyped in to see what David was wearing. He played Twinkle Twinkle on his violin for her. She really appreciated it and he loved playing for her - distance to him is nothing. Skype makes it the same as being across town even though it is across country.

It was a nice Halloween and a ton of kids came by (including one who said she used to live here - that was something else) - but all in all a fun family evening.

David's 1st Violin Recital - October 20, 2011

2011-10-21T01:04:00.000-07:00

David's 1st Violin Recital.

Yes - this man is ready to play. We are outside the recital hall and this man is jazzed (so to speak).

David got a little practice in before the recital (in the parking lot).

Mom is checking for last minute touches.

The man is serious.

We enter the concert hall and he is on the program.

They are listed in order of skill level. David is looking good.

He is the 6th child playing tonight out of 9.

David is ready to play (just a little warming up first).

He is a very intense player - really concentrates.

His Recital (click here to listen to him play).

Excellent job - bravo!

To a wonderful class of budding violinists!

His parents are so proud.

Really, he was one of the best performers

of the evening.

He stood correctly, introduced his piece with poise, and played beautifully.

Ok - Cookie Time. He deserved it. What a great 1st recital for all involved.

Practice really paid off. Nice job little man.

David's 1st Day of Kindergarden

2011-08-22T10:04:00.000-07:00

David's 1st Day of Kindergarden. There he is - so proud. He has his backpack, his Star Wars lunch box, and he is standing so tall - with a big smile.

(He is going to the same school that his sister Sarah went to many years ago.)

He picked out his outfit and dressed himself. He even laid out his clothes on the floor the night before so that he would be ready to change into them, get ready for breakfast, and then be prepared to go off to school.

He laid his shirt on the floor first. Under it went the underwear. Then under that you found the shorts. No - it is not done. He put his socks below his shorts - one sock under one trouser leg and another under the other one. He is very serious about this sort of thing and it was very important that Bitsy (our dog) not step on his clean clothes (especially today).

We all got up a little earlier today. It was 6:00 am - that is a big change from Google time trust me. I heard the alarm, washed my face, said "good morning" to Summer. Then I walked over to David's room to get him up. He was moving a little and all I said was: "is its time to get ready to go to kindergarden" and he got ready. (This is not normal - usually getting up is a bit of a struggle.)

I left the room long enough to let Bitsy out and when I came back I found him rubbing his eyes but dressed and ready to go - talking a mile a minute (of course talking a mile a minute is nothing new for him - I always wonder where he got that from - stop laughing).

I said "what do you want for breakfast" and he replied waffles. (Now keep in mind this is often a bit of a battle in the morning as he details what he does not want in the morning, like oatmeal or eggs or... well you name it these days. But this morning waffles without hesitation. So David and dad made breakfast - our normal routine (except a lot earlier).

As we started to enter the kitchen David said: "Dad, you make breakfast while I watch TV." My very impressive and effective response (yes I am proud of these tactical maneuvers when they are successful): "I need help, who is going to stir the batter." I know he loves to cook and then the process began - the routine was re-estabished. He mixes. I get the waffle iron ready and he sprays and we pour together.

Then with great anticipation we both watch to see how much of the waffle batter spills over into the spill cup on the other side of the waffle machine. That lets us know if we have enough to make yet another waffle after the first one is finished. It is a thrilling moment to watch the batter spill over. He loves to let me know how I must have put too much in for that to happen. Ok, enough with all that excitement - you think I am kidding watch for yourself - the mix master at work.

It is 7:00 am. It is time to go. Summer drove. We made it in plenty of time (hey I didn't say she was speeding - it is one of the benefits of the commuter lane). He gave us both a big hug and waved good-bye. He was jumping up and down ready to have a great time.

Summer dropped me off at the train station and went to work at Google. (By way of explanation, we took one car so we could see him off together on his first day of kindergarden - with one car we could all use that wonderful commuter lane I mentioned). I boarded the train, called my mom to see how she was doing, and before I knew it I was at the San Jose train station. I grabbed a cab and I read a chapter of the new book I am writing while in transit and I suddenly I was back home ready to record the moment for the little man (and the rest of us). What a day to remember (and that is why it is in this blog)!

Monterey Bay Aquarium (Day before 1st Day of Kindergarden)

2011-08-22T09:43:00.000-07:00

Fetterman Family at the Monterey Bay Aquarium. It is the day before David's first day of kindergarden. We had some business to take care of down in Monterey and David was so good we asked him "What would you like to do?"

He said the aquarium, so off we went. We have a membership so we could just walk right in (very important as you know when you have a 4 1/2 year old). Long lines don't work too well.

So here we are inside and all smiles. We know the place pretty well by now. We got married there and we go there all the time, (almost every time we come down to Monterey).

We also know what we want to see (the big fish and the jellies and that stamp machine that prints fish on those cool aquarium cards for you). We also know exactly how much time we have. It is called a parking meter and they do ticket. So what is the first thing you see in an aquarium regardless of your agenda - fish, a lot of fish (and beautiful blue water).

David was pretty focused like usual - check out those fish.

And then all of a sudden - sharks and lots of them. That was an eye opener. (It certainly was for him - as you can see below. We thought it was pretty cool too.)

This aquarium is something else. It also has interactive stations. Below you can see what a fish larva looks like. More to the point, you find it swimming around on the screen, touch it and a blow up shot appears. Then you can move it right side, left side, and upside down and all around to see all the dimensions of the larva.

The startling part is that David walked up to it and starting playing with it right away. It took him no time to figure it out. He has grown up on an iPad, the iPhone, and his own computer, so he thinks the rest of the world works this way. He even knew how to touch the X on the image to reduce it. We take it for granted that our kids are going up in the digital age, but there are little things like this that remind us of how powerful the influence is all around us and how differently he will think than we do.

Ok, back to reality. Here is a classic nettle or jelly. This is what I like to watch - very soothing, calm and almost like a ballet performed in ocean water.

That is not to say we did not enjoy the really big fish. This is where we had our wedding reception. I remember turning to this wall and watching the gigantic sun fish for a second during the reception and thinking no one could get bored at that wedding.

Well that's all for now. Just wanted to share a fun day with you. Between Facebook, Google +, and blogging it is a great way to stay in touch with friends and family around the world.

Bye!

Bubbie's Visit in July 2011

2011-07-26T13:20:00.000-07:00

Bubbie's Visit July 2011. Bubbie came to see the new house (and all the inhabitants in it). David had a great time seeing her.

Why wouldn't he have a great time.

They played letter games, operation, and Monopoly (while Dad worked on his new book - deadlines what can you do).

She attended his art show. The kids at Google had their art work semi-professionally displayed - with beautiful mats and frames, food, and wine. It was a nice feast and celebration of their budding talents.

We also went out with relatives as long as we were together - hi Mark and Vicki. This restaurant was great. The moment we sat down they volunteered David to help them make some pizza. Way to go restaurant. Good for him, good for us, good for them - a win all the way around.

We also had time for some techology. We just got my mom a new iPhone (4). She loved it. Summer showed her how to set it up. Bubbie and I texted non-stop once she got it set up. She really took to this little device (did I mention it does videoconferencing on the phone as well).

Finally, just before picking up the little man from Daycare my mom and I took a nice walk at Shoreline Park. She loves the water. The breeze was strong but really pleasant. The sun was shining and everyone had a good time.

See you for now Bubbie.

Happy 4th of July 2011 - David Loves the Fireworks & the Ball Game this Year

2011-07-04T12:21:00.000-07:00

Fireworks & Baseball on the 4th of July

Fireworks at Silver Creek Valley

David loved the fireworks this year. Last year he hid in the car with Summer. The noise was too loud. This year we saw them almost in our back yard and he loved every minute of the show. We did too. Another mini-milestone.

But that was not enough. We also went to the ball game - not just any ballgame but a sold out ball park. It was the San Francisco Giants against the San Diego Padres on the 4th of July.

And don't you know it, the minute the little man had to go to the facilities they hit a home run right into the stands - right where Summer, David, and I were sitting. I missed it. But the man had to pee, so one must remember one's priorities.

But I could have caught that ball. Summer ducked. As I said the man had to do his thing. We still had fun finding our way back. He loved the entire day and why not - one ball went right into the Bay over our heads. Ok enough with the balls that went out of the park. We really did have a great time as a family.

PS. It was his decision to wear the tie - really. He got a lot of compliments for it too. So he was on to something and I guess we should have listened.

Happy 4th of July 2011!

(and back to the ballgame)

Graduation Day! (Preschool to Kindergarden)

2011-06-16T23:39:00.000-07:00

Congratulations David! It was graduation day today for little David and quite a day it was. All week he has been saying they are going to give out badges for graduation. Summer and I were amused but pretty sure he meant diplomas, so we humored him. Sure enough they gave out Google badges instead of diplomas or certificates.

What do we know right? We have only gone through over 30 years worth of schooling ourselves? Did we ever get a badge? Maybe we missed something?

In any case, David's badge is personalized. He drew it himself. I will not go into detail but lets just say this guy has an attention to detail that is appearing pretty early in life.

The big surprise of the day is that Sarah was able to make it to David's graduation ceremony. It meant a great deal to David (as you will see later). Way to go Sarah!

Summer, David, Sarah, and Dad

Sarah is pretty proud of her little brother.

Talk about proud moments. David gave a speech or more accurately he told his teachers what he wanted to say at graduation and they wrote it down and shared it with us.

It is captured in this little video.

If you were not able to open the video it, the heart of it says:

"I just miss my sister because she is in college before me."

What a beautiful sunny California day. No complaints here. A great family celebration. What a nice way to celebrate this milestone.

Community Service - David Style - Google Serve

2011-06-14T15:02:00.000-07:00

Community Service Day. Yes we make him work. I know he is only 4 1/2 but you have to teach them young right?

This is actually part of a community service day for the family. It is called Google Serve and we volunteer to help provide food - fresh vegetables - for the local schools and other community programs.

David is helping to pry the garlic loose from the soil so we can pull them out of the ground, put them in the bins, and then bring the bins of garlic to the cart for cleaning and then transport.

Mom is helping to provide some instruction to a man who has a will of his own. Dad is in the background taking the shots and moving through the field like the wind prying that garlic loose, while the little man is occupied. (Why you may ask, "Is he a distraction?" "Does he slow you down with a million instructions," - yes - I said instructions, telling us where to dig and how to dig. No, no distraction at all. The purpose of this day is educational - for him right? Yes, of course, unless you are sweating in the baking sun and the clock is ticking away.

Da Dah as David says! He picked his first garlic from the soil. We had a great day and it is for a good cause - partially providing fresh vegetables to the local schools and partially to socialize this little man into what will be normal for him down the road. Da Dah! (Oops was that Mom and Dad patting themselves on the back for this early training or just their sore backs at the end of the day.)

The Little Man Keeps on Growing Right Before Our Eyes - 42 inches

2011-06-03T10:11:00.000-07:00

This little man just keeps on growing. We really didn't even notice it. Sure, we heard everyone saying how much more he has grown since the last time they saw him, but as a parent you just figure they are being polite - "small" talk as it were.

But we went back to Great America - theme park - this year and they measured him to see what rides he could go on. To our surprise, he was able to go on a new range of rides that he was too small to go on only a year ago.

Summer also noticed this morning that he was bulging out of his pajamas too and he is not plump. He is just growing like weed - out of control. We told him no more eggs and french toast for breakfast and no sleeping at bedtime or he will be bigger than us soon. Interestingly he is happy to eat breakfast now (for the most part) and willing to go to bed on time. I am not sure I see the link - more eating and sleeping for more rides. It sounds like manipulation to me. No, no - not us. Just a coincidence I am certain.

In any case, everyone goes through this, but it is still a little miracle - so incremental, talking one day, potty training the next, and now dressing himself. I literally sit there in amazement some mornings watching him dress himself. It was such a struggle to get his clothes on such as short period of time ago and now he is so proud. He jumps into our room and says: "Da Dah" - a bit on the dramatic side but he knows it is a big accomplishment. We are working on coordinating the outfit but that's another story (literally).

The other part of his growth - the inner growth - is also a wonder. He said to me before bedtime the other night (in his classic negotiating style): "What are my options?" In other words how late can I stay up tonight, how many books can we read before bedtime? But where did that vocabulary come from - options? But more important is his heart. The other night after he practiced on his violin he said he wanted to play a song for us - one he made up for us.

It was really cute. It went something like this:

"I love Daddy. I love Mommy. I love Sarah (his older sister). I love Bitsy too (our dog) even when she is a bad girl I still love her." Here is one rendition of his song below. It is hard to hear but you get the idea.

What a guy at 4 1/2 years old!

Happy Passover 2011

2011-04-25T17:39:00.000-07:00

Happy Passover 2011. Pretty cool - our first Passover in our new home. David got the flowers and did the Mah Nish Tahna Halila Hazeh Mecall Ha Ameem. Not too bad for 4 years old.

He even wore his yamaka for the picture - what you wanted him to wear it throughout the entire Sedar? Good luck.

He did sit reclining throughout the Sedar - see the red pillow pet underneath his bottom? He also found the afficoman so we could finish the Sedar in one evening.

Oh yes - lets not forget the Borah Pre Hagaffin - blessing on the wine (ok grape juice but you get the idea).

Dad explained the symbolism of the Sedar Plate.

We also took a moment to toast and celebrate our friend's new born at the Sedar. It made the symbolism of the egg more real and meaningful to David.

Thanks for sharing our Sedar with us - the same souls in a new vessel that's all.

What? You thought because I chose a bird of paradise (which just happens to be in our backyard), that we think we are care free and...

Well, on Passover that is precisely what we were - free and carefree.

Thankful for the freedoms we enjoy and the family that we embrace.

Hog Samaach - Happy Passover Everyone!

David Took the Roof Off of His Room! (we moved)

2011-04-20T13:32:00.000-07:00

The Move. Hey. David. Why did you take the roof off the house again?! No Daddy, it is just a painting. No way - put the roof back before it rains. Daddy... (and so our nightly conversations goes - yes - over and over and over again). He doesn't tire of it so why should I right?

In any case, David really likes his new room and his new house. No big turmoil about leaving the other one - which of course is more of a parent concern I suppose.

He also has a great view out his window in the morning - turkeys - no kidding, and they are big!

Hey - this little man had to work for this room and that view, including painting it with us.

It also means practicing on his violin at night. He is actually getting better every day. Who would guess 4 year old kids could learn to play. Suzuki method of course.

This is David playing for his porridge. Well actually, he is performing for his friends at Google pre-school.

He has adapted very well actually and been very low key about not just the move but all the remodeling and reconstruction. We thought this was a turn-key ready to move in house for the most part but that was not exactly the case. Everything was old, never touched, and in need of serious attention. So off to work we went.

From an almost paisley granite tile (now we are updating and into the remodeling zone),

to demolition,

to clean marble surfaces.

and its not just that room. There are the showers.

and just getting the place pulled together.

But it is all worth it, just check out the view from our bedroom.

and there are those cute moments of appreciation.

It is called the "I love you this much movie."

We also stop for a treat every once in a while in the middle of this chaos (which he seems to enjoy or be oblivious too).

and at the end of the day - it is the same routine: take a bath, eat your yogurt and fruit, read a story, brush your teeth, and it is BEDTIME!

Our night time laugh fest. Hey, I said BEDTIME!

Night (mister giggles).

Mandel Bread - a tradition

2011-01-07T11:03:00.000-08:00

Mandel Bread. This is basically a Jewish biscotti - but softer and maybe a bit sweeter.

My Dad and Mom used to make it when we were kids. My sister Judy and I tried making it every so often.

It tastes great. I have not seen it anywhere for some time. Occasionally I would find it say in Chicago - called a Russian Tea Cake.

They have something like it here at the Stanford Shopping Center but they put jam in it and call it a walnut cookie.

I stumbled on this recipe just last week and it is really good. It is easy to make (although we made half the amount and still ended up with 4 1/2 loaves).

David made this batch with me or I should say I assisted him. Don't worry he washed his hands - he insisted (of course he loves to play in the water so this was a nice excuse). You can see he is quite proud of his accomplishment. I even let him get out of bed to see the final product.

However, he did have to wait until morning to eat it - ostensively because it was too hot. Mostly because it was late (past his bedtime) and yes it does have some sugar in it.

So we have continued yet another tradition. The mandel bread tradition in the Fetterman Family. Summer shared some of it with our friends and her colleagues at Google. They loved it. It doesn't look very pretty as a loaf - which put one friend off until they tasted it and then back they came for more.

No surprise here.

I linked you up with the recipe so go for it and create your own tradition. Once you start it is really hard to...be right back, just getting one more piece of mandel bread with my tea...hard to stop, I think that is what I was saying.

Enjoy!

Hanukkah in Hawaii 2010

2010-12-09T18:32:00.000-08:00

Happy Hanukkah! Why not - David gets 8 days of gifts and a chance to light the candles (aka play with fire) every night. This man is into Hanukkah.

Well, actually I begin with where we ended - back at home in Menlo Park (with all the comforts of home with a few days left of Hanukkah - where we left the presents for the most part). So let me back track and take us back in time.

Last week we spent Hanukkah in Hawaii - Maui specifically - very laid back.

Summer found a nice house to rent like usual. This was a real treat. This is the front entrance - just passing through the front gates.

Here is the view from the house - ocean in the background and palm trees everywhere.

David and Bubbie made the most use of the deck - lounging primarily.

Of course, the inside was quite nice too. You can see Summer is hard at work on her computer in the living room - tracking down great places to eat. (I mean working very hard on Google work of course, what was I saying.)

You find Summer consulting with Lee (her dad) on an important culinary selection.

Bubbie (my mom) really was working on a proposal while we were there. Not bad for 83 - still writing and winning proposals. Don't worry - she had fun (this was just part of her fun).

When it rained for a few minutes here and there David found himself busy understanding theories about Vietnam and other political propaganda stories: I mean he learned to play dominos.

When the sun came back out - there was almost always a rainbow to enjoy.

As long as it was dry again, it was time to explore the territory on the plantation. David found all sorts of things to enjoy when the sun came out. For one he found out he was a big crocket fan - well he became one as soon as he saw the stick and the ball and was told you were actually allowed to hit the ball with the stick. Lee aka Papa and David spent time trying not to get hurt, I mean enjoying the turf and the sportsmanship between them.

Oh yes - did I mention David is a water baby - he loves the water, any kind of water, from washing the dishes (what child labor laws) to the jacuzzi - just a few feet away.

Well - we could not stay at the plantation the entire time right? So off we went for our first culinary selection: Mama's Fish House (on the east coast by Haiku where we were staying). A lot of movie stars and politicians go there.

Ok - so we were not politicians or actors but we enjoyed the food and company just as much (maybe more since there wasn't any politicing going on - just kicking back and relaxing and enjoying the food and the atmosphere).

Since the place is right by the beach (I wasn't kidding), we took a stroll - David and Summer could not resist.

OK - lets put it on the table. Food was a very common theme throughout the journey. Lets fast forward to the gourmet quality luau we enjoyed. The menu was extraordinary, the food was served at your table (instead of the normal buffet style), and instead of a lot of bulk - there was an endless serving of choice smaller meals with a beautiful presentation each time.

Yes - there was dancing too - from Hawaii, New Zealand, Samoa - well you get the idea.

David was enthralled and why not - he thought everyone there was celebrating his birthday (he just turned 4 in November). We did not try to dissuade him from his beliefs - especially since they presented him with a birthday cake and one woman - who we had never met - came over to congratulate him and tell him that she spent more time watching him than the performances. I must say he was on his best behavior - that many hours with adults (no other kids around) he sat in his chair, ate his food, and watched the performances (including the dancers who played with fire). Did you notice the subtle theme here - Hanukkah candles and Luau fire dancers? This kid does like fire.

Well - we had to work some of that food off. So we went hiking once again on the Haikua side of the island. Who took the lead? What a surprise: Mr. I. M. Independent.

Don't let anyone kid you, this was a real hike and as you will see the terrain gets a little rougher along the way. We start with a road and then a path.

But from there we hike along the dry river bed - smooth rocks (some wet) that don't always stay where they are supposed to be.

Yes - that is Bubbie - my 83 year old mom and she is hiking right along with us - going along some pretty rough and at times steep terrain.

David maintained the pace too

It was worth it. We made it to a beautiful pond and waterfall where we took a break and a dip (remember David is a real water baby - if there is an opportunity to take a dip he is there).

Ok - we all took a dip and don't let anyone tell you differently - it was COLD!

Lee and Bubbie watched from the comfort of the fallen log and dry rocks.

We did not stop the adventure here. It was time to try a submarine and enjoy the beauty below - in the great blue depths of the ocean. We were off to Lahina on the Reef Dancer.

We are submerged.

What kind of fish was that?

Ok - time to go to the surface and look around. Who was the first one up the stairs? You are still guessing?

Ok - we all enjoyed the move from down under as it were to the surface.

Once we got back on land well we had to find some kid stuff to do right - and what was waiting outside the old Lahina Court House - a big, bright, blue slide. Who ran like crazy to it? Once again - you paused for even a second. (I know it could have been me you were thinking about - but no adults allowed here.)

After we worked up a bit of sweat it was time for a little snack, but why is David eating all of Papa's (Lee's) chocolate ice cream?

Hey - we deserved even more food by this time. So you guessed it. It was time to eat yet again. No worries I will cut this story short and bring you along our last dinner on the island at Hali'imaile - another gourmet restaurant. Of course, getting there was no simple task. The road narrowed to nothing at one point, there were hair pin turns, but Summer handled it, like she was driving on the reservation. I sat back and handled navigation. (Hey stop laughing we got there didn't we.)

Another family dinner (the woman who runs this place received a commendation from the Senate for her small business operations - she really deserved it for the quality of her food and presentation).

You thought I was kidding - look at this presentation (and the taste - light and... you get the idea).

We hope you have enjoyed this story and these pictures in the same way we enjoyed every course we ate and every step we took - celebrating family.

Summer in Monterey

2010-10-04T15:14:00.000-07:00

Monterey. This is our little get away. I know you have been wondering, where has that Fetterman family been. Well Sarah is off to college but we spent our weekends here in Monterey.

The first shot is from the stairs looking down at the pool. (We thought it was too cold to try until David convinced us to give it a shot. Who knew it was heated! It was great.)

Next you can see our living room -nice paintings.

Who watched TV at a place like this? (OK David watched educational television early in the morning, while we slept in. Don't be to envious he asked for me to join him to watch every 15 to 30 minutes, but you would be surprised just how much sleep you can get every 14 minutes with just modest interruptions of: "Dad, what are you doing? Come watch with me. I am hungry. I starving.") Ok - when he went to bed we watched a little TV ourselves.

Plenty of great meals and time for making wooden toys from kits at this table.

Of course, when he did not have time for us he was busy working on the iPad. Not even four and he knows how to use the iPad. He will be part of a entirely new generation where this will be as natural as breathing, running, and playing.

You remember I mentioned we slept in some time. Well, this is where we slept. Hard to believe, but there was nothing like sleeping in when we could not to mention a great night sleep after a full day with the Big Boy.

Ok - back to the living room. You ask: "what did they do down there, especially when it is cloudy?" Good question. Our response, the same as everyone else: "peek-a-boo" from inside the ottoman. What else would you use it for?

Yes - a full morning of "peek-a-boo" and building wooden toys (and painting them), not to mention making Williams and Sonoma waffles (a great mix), means nap time (with a book of course). We repeated this performance with our night time ritual of reading. Three books if we were a good boy (and brushed our teeth) and only two books or one if we had a bit of a melt down. Hey, don't knock it. It works.

Ok - why does anyone really come to Monterey? The beach. Asilomar is great. A bit windy but he loves it. We love it. (Even Bitsy loves it.)

Is that some attitude showing? Are you supposed to be standing that far out on the rocks? That look of his: a bit mischievous, wouldn't you say?

But most of the time, what a great guy. Happy, full of life. Really enjoys and is amazed by everything, especially at the beach.

You remember I mentioned running and playing a few minutes ago in reference to David's use of the iPad. Well don't worry he is a little boy - all boy trust me. Mr. Nonstop energy. Take a look at these shots - at the Denis the Menace Park. (A fitting name and place if you know the other side of this little man.)

Oh, how did that shot get in there. Well we like to have some fun too. This is the place we chose to get married. Not the park, the Monterey Bay Aquarium. But when we are not at the Aquarium, guess what we are at the park or the beach or back to our little hide away.

We are trying to teach him to capture some of these moments himself because they go by so quickly. He is a quick study. Did you see his pictures of Sarah's graduation. Aside from the shots of everyone's shoes he did a pretty good job.

Well so long to Monterey for the summer. It was a nice escape.

As you can see David has a different opinion, as he runs back to the compound. See you Monterey - catch you next summer.

Sarah's Graduation

2010-07-08T01:30:00.000-07:00

Graduation Day. This was Sarah's day. A big transition (for all of us). She was so proud and excited. David was also excited. He was right there ready to capture her moment.

We were all there for her -Bubbie, Little David, Summer, and Dad. We watched and celebrate her moment.

July 4th in Monterey

2010-07-08T00:37:00.000-07:00

Denis the Menis Park. There is only one place to be when you are in Monterey, if you are three. The place is the Denis the Menis Park.

I think of myself as in touch with the three-year old mind as I can, given all that we do together as a family. But I will tell you, the people who designed this park really know kids.

David was beside himself (with excitement). He ran from the big sun slide to the cat walk (and from the cat walk to the train, from the train to the slide, from the slide to the pole, and from the pole to the bell).

Wait a minute, who else was running on that cat walk - ok mom was running after David, but still there she was, right there. (Of course, we all feel we are walking on a cat walk or tight rope these days - no its not his moods, well then again - never mind - we are just trying to stay one step ahead of the game and so far so good.)

There was no end to the fun he had that day.

He led the way. We followed every step of the way. We were all pretty thirsty!

We ended the day at the fountain of youth or is David that elusive fountain.

Great America - Father's Day Part II

2010-06-22T01:15:00.000-07:00

Great America Theme Park. David had a great time embracing Part II of Father's Day.

He loved the rocking horse, the mini-roller coaster rides - he loved it all. Although he was not too happy when he could not go on a Dad's ride (240 floors high). Of course, he was the first to point out how Dad could not go on some of the kids' rides - that was unfair but am I complaining. Summer had a great time too. She went on one of the kiddie rides with David and had a rude awakening - the kids roller coasters are real. Try opening up the video to get a glimpse into Father's Day (part II). See you for now - what a weekend.

Indoor Skydiving - Father's Day Part I

2010-06-22T00:51:00.000-07:00

Is that David Flying? Well - yes - this was Father's Day Part I. David was flying in a wind tunnel (with a professional instructor of course).

In fact, this was a family affair. We all joined in.

Sarah had never tried it before - her stomach got a little tight but she loved it.

Summer was flying high. Dad - well he is always considered a high flier. It was a great (and thrilling) evening for all of us - not a bad Father's Day either. Take a look at our team below:

Summer

Sarah

Dad

Passover 2010 - Boreh Pri Hagafen

2010-04-05T23:30:00.000-07:00

Telling the Story Once Again. Yes it was a somewhat abbreviated version of how Moses led the Jews out of slavery from the lands of Egypt. Ok - it was almost at light speed, but we covered the bases.

We washed our hands. We dipped the greens, ate the bitter herbs; (which he really did not like - but that was the point as we explained). We never want to live the bitter life of slavery ever again (and that we have an obligation to help others facing a similar fate - mentally, spiritually, or physically).

We asked the the four questions. We ate the matzah (and explained how there just was no time to let it rise in the hot hot sun). They were in a bit of a rush. He liked that last part since we were in Israel a couple of summers ago and he remembered how much fun he had running really fast and how hot it was in the desert.

The big treat was that David recited the blessing once again: "Boreh Pri Hagafen".

Click here to play video

If you look carefully you can see that David is still wearing his yamulka. Not too bad for a 3 1/2 year old young man. By the way Summer cooked up a feast - it was great (tri-tip, yams, and my favorite strawberry, pine nut salad).

Did I mention some of his chants were at the top of his lungs. Yes - he had a bit of energy - it was not exactly a calm and sedate Sedar. But he did find the afficomin so we were able to complete the Sedar. (We gave him a Thomas the train - with a chip that the toy station can read - announcing the train in the station - very cool, very high tech. Only in Silicon Valley.)

Oh yes - the Sedar plate. We had it all, but the horeset was a special Californian apricot jam. It was good (and sweet). If you want to join us come visit by selecting this tiny video.

As I say, Summer did a great job - but was she tired by the end of the day - oh yes. (I can still hear David yelling and having a good time - dancing non-stop - in the background). Here are some flowers for a beautiful day sweet heart.

What a wonderful day!

David's Tripping the Light Fantastic at Subways

2010-03-17T08:47:00.000-07:00

This is the man!

(Check him out on YouTube.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Be6ypbD0AbU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Be6ypbD0AbU.)

Yosemite 2010

2010-03-06T00:15:00.000-08:00

The Wilderness Boy. David likes to look out at the world from on high. He immerses himself in nature and is often at one with nature. (See Half-Dome in the distance and a man snow bound in front of us.)

Of course, he is not content to simply stand idly by. He is a take charge sort of guy and throws himself into everything he does - including walking on the snow.

(Sometimes he thinks he walks on water but that is for another day's posting.)

At the end of the day, however, he is just like you or me. He enjoys a good warm fire, a toasty room, and a roof over his head. Stoke the fires, sit back and relax - time to simply enjoy a few moments away from the rat race with family.

David's Trip to Madrid - January 2010

2010-01-29T17:16:00.000-08:00

Madrid Zoo. Yes you see snow. It was the first time in 50 years that Madrid was blanketed with snow like this. Luckily Summer brought the boots. As you can see we had the place to ourselves and what did David enjoy the most - throwing snowballs at Dad, and then Mom (and then our friend Chema - our host in Spain).

Zebras Lions Flamingos Dolphins (jumping)

It was so deserted that when we walked to the Dolphin show they shouted: "are you really staying?" If not, they were not going to bother putting on the show - but said "yes" and we all had a good time. The put the whole show on for us. It was pretty cool. They are so human. They come so close.

Dolphin on the left and Chema on the right: Talking

Museums

We wanted to make sure this was educational for the little man so we shifted gears from the zoo (which is educational) to hard-core museums. The first was highly intellectual with David's dad spending time conversing with a close friend and colleague - contemplating equations. We thought that would be good modeling for little David. He watched and stared at the blackboard with us.

Little David Center, Albert in the Middle,
and David's Dad to the Far Right

We spent some time at more traditional castles and palaces as well - just to ensure that David gets a cultured experience out of the trip.

Palacio Real de la Granja de San Ildefonso

I know, I know, this sounds very impressive. No worries - David did not touch a thing in these castles and palaces. It was too cold - he was all bundled up. The only thing he did is chase all of us and try to run us down with the stroller. He got Chema a couple of times - never got me. You see those steps by the fountain in the picture above on the left side. He actually figured out how to maneuver the stroller all the way to the top by himself - very determined little man.

Now what we are not showing you is that we ate at Starbucks almost every morning - he loved it (we kind of liked it too). We also ate the traditional late lunches at 2:00 (or even 3:00) and dinner - well lets just say it was not unheard of to be eating at 10, 11 and even 12:00 at night. David was so off his schedule that we would walk around the streets of Madrid at midnight - it was perfectly safe, lots of people just starting to party. Her is us with our umbrella behind us around midnight.

Oh yes - David let me go to work each day so I really appreciated it and have to take the time to thank him here - thanks buddy. Summer and David went shopping and toured more palaces while Dad was was teaching. It was one heck of a nice family trip. (Sarah could not make it this time - she came with me last time. I had to wake her up for dinner as I recall.) We are all still recovering from jet lag - but as I say - well worth it.

Our hosts were stupendous - thanks Chema, Miguel, and Adolfo.

Disneyworld 2009

2009-12-23T10:54:00.000-08:00

Disneyworld. Who is that pirate?

He looks scary to me. David does not like anything on his skin - like the stamps that most kids like. (Nothing like Dad - who knows where he picked that trait up.)

But today - David made an exception. He sat still for the make-up artist from start to finish.

He even wore it outside - a proud pirate (a tired pirate by the end of the day when he pointed to the make-up and said "off"). Good thing we got these pictures while we could.

We also went to the Animal Kingdom and saw rhinos, gorillas, crocks - well you name it.

It was pretty cool. We even saw a living - moving - tree.

Bubbie wanted to know how they got it to move like that. Soon the tree and Bubbie became best friends.

David started getting sleepy on our way up Mount Everest. It was quite a climb.

Once David woke up from his brief nap, he had to see Mickey. So we waited in line for an hour - the classic Disney snakelike lines to make you feel like you are moving somewhere. They had a cartoon clip playing in the background (the same clip over and over again). When we finally mad it to Mickey - to get that professional photo shoot with his idol - what happened. Take a look.

Yes - David lost it. He did not want to be that close to those larger than life size images of Mickey. So we waited all that time and it was a bust. (Normally, we used fast-passes and parent swap tickets for everything else to really speed through the lines). Well - it made it memorable - right?
Bubbie and David got into a laugh fest during one of the breaks. (Take a look or a listen by clicking here.)

Yes - the parents had some fun too. Here is a shot of us going on one of the best roller coaster rides in the park - it was cool. Make sure you see how calm Summer is in this shot. (See the video clip too.)

Well - we had a great time and ended the trip and the year with some serious fireworks. Happy 2009 - and almost 2010.

Happy Hanukkah 2009

2009-12-15T23:00:00.001-08:00

Happy Hanukkah 2009!

Did we have fun or what? David did the prayer over the candles. Listen if you like - just click here. (You will also see a tiny video of him going at it with unbridled enthusiasm - I kid you not.)

We all lit the candles each night and shared food, stories, and of course presents.

This family shot captures the chemistry in the house. David is leading with the candles, Dad is in the background (running like crazy to get the time exposure shot and make it in the picture in time), Summer has made sure everything is in place, and Sarah is proud and happy - has a job, got offered admission at Bard, asked to act in a Shakespearean play, and the list goes on. She is a happy camper.

One of his toys was a set of power tools. No Dad did not get it for him but they look exactly like Dad's tools and David loved it. All week he called himself a worker including the headphones to protect his ears from the noise of the sawsall and power drill. He was riding hi. Dad gave him a piece of wood as a special present to drill (instead of the furniture) and he loved it (cherished that wood). He also let us know how careful we should be because the tools could be dangerous. What a man! Happy Hanukkah!

Happy Birthday - David is Three Year's Old!

2009-11-22T16:46:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday David - November 21, 2009. David had a wonderful birthday party. What a surprise right?

It started with decorating the house with streamers and balloons. The balloons were the best as David helped Dad cut the string and hold the balloons steady as Dad filled them with helium. How many did we pop - don't ask?

David and Tracy started the birthday
by cooking up a few fun treats.

Suddenly the guests arrived and it was one heck of a wild party - really - that many three-year-olds. It was a wild party. Actually even thought it was busy and loud, the kids were very well behaved - no major accidents. No shoving, shouting or anything. Trust me as a parent these are the things you concern yourself with at these events. Were there a few tiny "accidents" -- nothing that could not be cleaned up quickly with a change of pants and fresh underwear.

Oh, but there was more. As we move out to the garage what do we find - we find the party was a real zoo. Really - a zoo - a petting zoo with pigs, rabbits, goats - you name it. The kids loved it.

Even the older "kids" loved the petting zoo. Sarah and her friend Deanna had a ball (and they are a bit older).

The party spilled out into the back lawn and then back into the kitchen. Sarah, David, and Deanna were engineers on this day - with Thomas the Train as the theme what else would you expect for more fun things to do?

The party concluded with Sarah drawing figures and birthday well wishes on the balloons. The kids didn't complain about the gift packages either. Who could blame them - a puppet, play dough, and crawly things.

We all went to sleep early that night. What a milestone - 3 years, hard to believe.

Halloween 2009 - Sarah & David

2009-11-01T01:26:00.001-07:00

Sarah Took David Out For Halloween. As you can see David was thrilled that his big sister was taking him out for Halloween. He talked about it all day in Google Day Care on Friday.

David waited outside on the porch for Sarah to come with her friends. He saw her in the Scarey Wild Max outfit and knew this was going to be his kind of fun.

Here is the line up. David, Sarah, Taylor, and Peter. What a gang starting the trick or treat journey on the front porch.

And off they go down our street in search of the good stuff.

David was very comfortable with the gang. We could hear him talking to them all the way down the street. Mom and Dad watched and were supportive but once he was off, he was off.

You could hear David explaining some topic in great detail as they walked down the street. His voice was very confidently as he walked down the street with his big sister and her friends. (He knew Peter from dinners and Taylor from our holiday get together in San Rafael - so he really felt comfortable and at home.)

David came home with a ton of loot. Sarah made sure he really cashed in. He tried a few things but, ironically, all he really wanted was the play dough. It was an unusual treat but it really hit the mark.

He put all the candy he collected back into the treat bowl for the other kids coming during the night. I think the fun was being with the grown-ups - not just any grown-ups - his big sister Sarah. A good time was had by all.

(Thanks Sarah from Dad, Summer & little David.)

Who would have thought of Halloween as a family bonding moment - but I guess that is what all rituals are really about on one level or another. See you next year.

Pumpkin Time 2009

2009-10-15T01:23:00.001-07:00

Pumpkin Festival. David loves trains and sure enough they had a train at the pumpkin festival.

They also had a hay ride.

Guinea pigs too.

...and there were mountains of pumpkins.

...and a hidden surprise...tons of flowers.

Reservation 2009 - Family Reunion

2009-09-10T00:16:00.000-07:00

Salmon Fishing. The catch was pretty good this year.

David is driving us to the river. He had a ball. (Yes - Summer is really at the wheel.)
David and Dad are just taking a stroll.Watch carefully. You will see the stone in mid-air. David was content to throw rocks in the river all afternoon.
Leo and Lee are cutting up the Salmon by the river.David is contemplating his role by the river. It is a serious moment of thought - to throw more rocks, to get his feet wet, or just enjoy the view. Thinking, thinking - life is filled with so many hard decisions.
Mom is enjoying a quiet moment in the tent - and who is that in the corner of the tent - poking his head up for - oh dare I say - a little attention.
The journey ends with Dad's feet to the fire. What a difference the expression means when you are stepping outside the office and into the sanctuary of the wilderness.

Daily Events - Toilet Training to Teacher Home Visits

2009-08-19T14:29:00.000-07:00

Toilet Training. Well our last update was back in June and here we are again. We are interested in toilet training again. This time Summer hid Cookie Monster under David's pillow as a reward surprise. Boy was he surprised. I have never seen him speechless but he was. He turned his pillow over and starred for about 7 seconds - no words - just an ear to ear grin. He loved it. What you do for a little reinforcement these days. Soon we will have the entire Sesame Street crowd over here - but it works.

Click here for his view of his milestone achievement.

Drummer Boy. David has also been learning a new instrument. It is called the pots and pans. I mean the drums. Take a listen by clicking here.

Teacher's Home Visit. Finally, we end this brief glimpse into David's daily life with a home visit from one of his teachers - Anna. It was great building a stronger connection between school and home and David loved it. He showed her everything from his hobby horse (with rocking motion of course), his room, his bath, his books - you name it. He was so proud. Then we all went out for dinner - making a closer bond between all of us.

Yes - your eyes are not deceiving you. This is the same picture in transition. It is a cool new slideshow video format I used to make a thank you video for David's Teacher for coming to see us in our home. Hopefully you can open it too.

To open it and see it, click here.

Wait for about 15 to 20 seconds for it to download.
Then do a search for it. It is called: AnnasHomeVisit.m4v
Once you find it, just double click on it and it should open up in iTunes and play for you automatically.

Enjoy!

Thomas the Train

2009-08-03T23:12:00.000-07:00

Thomas the Train. David had a wonderful day with his hero - Thomas the Train. It was a beautiful sun shiny day. It was a family day to remember and even savor. It is important to hold on to these simple moments.

If you want to join us on our journey just stroll through this blog. If you want to ride with us on just this day, click here and you will be our guest on a special ride.

4th of July weekend 2009

2009-07-05T23:19:00.001-07:00

Fireworks. We concluded the 4th of July festivities with fireworks. We live pretty close to the Amphitheater, across from Google. We drove over at the last minute and caught the show. It was a late night for David. We did not get home until 10:00 pm. but he loved it, (except for the noise). (Click here for a tiny video of our fireworks adventure.) The rest of this brief posting tells the story of our long weekend - in reverse order - from the sparkle of fireworks to the zoo to the aquarium. What a fun filled, packed weekend.

The Oakland Zoo. We spend the day of 4th of July at the Oakland Zoo. It was clean, interesting, and of course David had a ball. Below he is making friends with a snake while drinking his milk. No worries - that is pretty thick glass between them, (protecting the snake from David).

We took the gondola above the park - the view was great. Take a look at the giraffe part of the park below.
Now we are a bit more down to earth, with a shot of David Senior and David the II (with the giraffe behind us).

Mom decided to help David pet the lizard just in case he confused petting with a hug or a big squeeze.

We concluded our visit of the zoo with a visit to the formal petting zoo - in this case a not so friendly goat. I remember David muttering something about getting his goat or something like that by the time we left.
Oh, did I forget to mention that one of his favorite things in the zoo was the ride on the fire engine? Lets see - nature, wild animals or a fire truck - you tell me what was the highlight of his day? (Click here for a tiny video of his wonderful ride?)

Monterey Bay Aquarium

The weekend actually began at the Monterey Bay Aquarium (where we were married).

The seahorse was the special attraction and I could see why - some were tiny and others bigger than I imagined that's for sure.

David liked the tiny ones - why - I could not tell you - unless it was just something he could tower over - who knows. We had lunch at the aquarium by the water. David was preoccupied with the view. That made for a very nice, quiet lunch.

Asilomar. As long as we were spending time at the Aquarium we figured the beach was not too far away, so off to Asilomar we went. As you can see, David has a new find in his hand, (another precious piece of seaweed). But the real find was in his eyes - take a look at this little bundle of mischief with his mom below the picture with dad and his prize possession.

Check out this man's eyes - does he know what he is doing or not. You can guess what he is thinking, especially if we just told him no running toward the water. Anyone have an extra pair of pants and shoes? We all had a nice 4th of July weekend (and this was only the beginning of the story).

2009-06-10T09:23:00.000-07:00

On Our Way to Daycare. What can't you tell? Helmet - so we are ready for any contact sport, soccer ball - so we can create that contact sport, and oh yes diapers (well you know just in case). Speaking of case - that is a lot of diapers.

Somehow Dad and David made it to daycare. (Dad also carried the hat and jacket and eventually the box of diapers too.) But David held Dad's hand (and the soccer ball) - so he had his hands full too.

Well - enough of the daily life of David II - time to get back to work (for Dad too). Just thought I would share a cute moment - wearing the entire outfit - as he marched outside all the way to school. It was for lack of a better word - the enigmatic, the unique, the - Mr. David II.

Going to the Park in the Morning

2009-05-22T00:50:00.001-07:00

The Slide. Our latest cool ritual in the morning before Summer takes David to Google Day Care is for David and Dad to head for the park across the street. The big attraction is the cool twisted tube slide.

I hang my feet down the inside of the slide - keep in mind this is his idea.

David climbs on my legs, sits in between my feet (which are dangling down the edge of the slide) and then lets go with a blood curdling scream.

He is a real nut on this slide. It is the first time he has ventured this far. Before he was afraid of it. Now he goes down this slide a million times at race car speeds and laughs all the way down.

Now do you have this much fun each morning before going to "work".

You can see the existential birth like metaphor of a long tube to birth below - use your imagination - he is just reliving it I guess.

2009-04-28T01:44:00.000-07:00

Slinky. Timeless toy. I had one as a kid and now David is discovering the joy of such a simple toy. Yes we walked it downstairs. Now we are stretching it right across the room. Next we will try and see each other from one end to the other.

Is there no end to this fun. Obviously not - not for this little man.

Yes - he is a fun little man at 2 and half. Not a bad life.

2009-03-18T12:47:00.000-07:00

Medical Center Report. David II just made it into the Stanford Medical Center Report. You know how long it has taken me to get into that report and he is only 3 years old? You don't want to know. In any case, it is really a tribute to David's spirit and my dads. I hope you enjoy it.

Stanford Report, Medical Center Report, March 18, 2009. p. 8.

Child's Play

2009-02-15T00:54:00.000-08:00

Child's Play. Just a fun video of Dad and David passing time during the weekend. It is important to remember these fun moments so they are preserved and shared here.

Enjoy the moment.

- Dad

PS If you have a problem viewing it after double clicking on the picture just click on this YouTube URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcgGyFom9zU

Happy Hanukkah 2008!

2008-12-21T23:25:00.000-08:00

Happy Hanukkah 2008! Time marches on - hard to believe - another Hanukkah already. This time he is so much more alert, aware, and awesome.

He knows his numbers and his colors. This is in large part due to Summer's work finding the right videos - they really work.

David is learning to light the candles, using the Shamis to light the other candles each night. Of course, he tries to blow the candles out like it is a birthday, but he will learn. The tradition continues. Life can be quite sweet.

What - we did not mention that there were gifts. Eight nights of gifts - this kid is doing just fine. Second night and he already has a better tool kit than mine. Wednesday Bubbie is coming in for a visit. Very exciting. We will keep you posted.

Happy Thanksgiving 2008

2008-11-30T23:14:00.000-08:00

Happy Thanksgiving 2008!

We had a great dinner - it was deelish!

Summer's grandparents and dad joined us this year. We had a great time. Sarah is feeling a lot better (had mono for a long time this year).

Little David and I are way back there waving. Do you know what kind of a run that is back to the seat from the camera? David loved it.

The little man really dug into Thanksgiving dinner - of course eating has never been a real problem for this man.

Yes - that's me at the end of the meal. Thankful for all that we have - with family all around.

Happy Birthday - David is Two Years Old!

2008-11-22T01:47:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday David (2 years old)!

Does This Little Man Look Like
He is the Master of the Occasion?

We didn't waste any time. Instead of ending the meal with the birthday celebrations, we started with the cupcake (courtesy of mom - she baked a ton of them). He blew the candle right out. He knew what to do. All day we have been saying "Happy Birthday" and asking "Do you know it is your birthday?" and his response all day - a very controlled, albeit practiced, nod of the head (over and over again).

Sarah enjoyed the celebration with her brother. David had fun pointing at Sarah in the mirror (a second Sarah I guess).

What is the star doing over my head? Don't tell me it is a flash. It must have been a big candle in the background for David - that must of have been some big cake.

Well as you can see - it was a good time had by all. Thanks David for sharing your birthday celebration with us. We all had a good time. So long for now - another year - hard to believe. The little man is 2 years old.

Gym Time!

2008-11-02T20:50:00.001-08:00

Gymnasium Day. Every Saturday at 9:00 am is gymnasium day for David. We are awake anyway trust me. The ritual begins at 6:30 - sometimes even 7:30 - with scrambled eggs, toast, and milk for David. Then time to play a little - maybe some guitar.
Suddenly it is 8:50 - time to run - and off we go! All the way across the street to Menlo Park's gymnasium. We jump, tumble, and climb. Then we have hoola hoops, basketball, and a lot of mat pads. Oh yes, there is the parachute time - its not what you think. Take a look below.

They just run around like crazy on the parachute, while we make ripples for them to stomp on. If he is still not tired, off we go to Stanford for a quick run.
Then it is time for lunch and maybe even a nap - but you never know. All you really ever know with David is you are in for a non-stop day! (But he is a fun guy to have around - energy but lots of smiles.)

Reservation 2008 - Labor Day - Salmon Fishing

2008-09-07T01:15:00.000-07:00

Fishing on the Rez. It was that time of year again. On Labor Day we drive up to the reservation and fish (and camp out when there aren't that many fish).

David is Jewish and he is a member of the Yurok Tribe. What a powerful combination.

We enjoy seeing everyone at these reunions but the scenery is also breathtaking. No electricity, no phone service - very pristine, as it should be. Just take a look at this country and you will know what I mean.

David saw water (his favorite past time in life) and wanted to go to the river right away. Summer and the little man got their feet a little wet. (You can see one of the nets in the picture below - to the right of the picture.) We saw bears around there again this year and otters (both are going after the salmon).

Mr. Smiley face was very much at home by the river - water, stones to through, camp fires, and being a very social man - lots of people to watch and play with.
Lee (Summer's dad), Summer, and David take a moment to take a drink after a long hot day.

Lee accompanied the little man down to the river. (Notice the Stanford cap he is wearing - just a coincidence I am sure.)
David wanted to go into the water any chance he got.

Lee knew that David loved water - so off we went - down river in the motor boat. It was cool. Fast across the cross tides.
David didn't mind the wind too much - just enjoyed taking it all in. Beautiful blue skies too.

Then we hit something - probably a rock that got caught in the intake or something - who knows but it got our attention. Lee checked it out and made a few repairs. Then we were back on board, returning to the base camp.

Back at the camp site, David quickly made friends again - this time with the small folks.

Summer got to see Georgina (her language teacher), while we were up there.

Oh yes - we were up there to fish. Here is one of the salmon (ok two of them). It was not a big haul this time but not bad either.

You can see Denis and Junior cutting up the salmon for us.

Of course, David figured that was grown up work and watched for a little while but then returned to his spot by the river - so he could throw stones in the river and watch the other kids swimming.

Now that is one cool fish head. The kids played with all the "left over" pieces - very creative.
The days were filled with activity and excitement - sometimes a bit overstimulating for little David. So he would have his down time.
We all headed to the tent for a nap (in part for him and in large part for us).

The trip ended all too soon - and David did not want to go. He sat in his favorite spot by the river right to the end. See you for now.

Connecticut Trip - Middle David's Bar Mitzvah

2008-09-06T23:35:00.000-07:00

Middle David's Bar Mitzvah. This family reunion revolved around middle David's Bar Mitzvah. He did a great job (and was not particularly nervous either). He even took time to try and entertain little David when we were up on the bemah together (finishing my alehah). What a nice guy!

Little David and I wondered around before and after middle David's reading of the Torah. He found a toy Torah and hugged it. Very cute and unexpectedly appropriate.

There is limited photography at a Bar Mitzvah, so the rest of the shots focus on the retreat Summer found for us while we were visiting. The pond behind the cottage was beautiful. David even found a swing.

Bubbie and David bonded on the deck in back of the cottage right by the water.

This is a view of the water. I told you it was beautiful. (Did I mention David loves water. This was big time fun for him.)

First we tested the water. A toe at a time. We found fish jumping up to nibble at the little man's toes - it was funny. Later we fed them bread. They almost jumped out of the water to get the tiny pieces of bread.

Bubbie and David discussed the safety standards associated with dock behavior. The rules: for him - hold on to us and for us - keep your eyes on him at every moment. (Its not that David lacks judgment or anything - its just the idea of jumping off the dock and into the water at any moment is something that kind of pops into his head without any notice or warning at all.)
After coming to an understanding about the "rules" (rules right), we just enjoyed the scenery.

Bubbie relaxed and enjoyed David as he explored every inch of the deck, the stairs, and of course the water.
Oh yes, the reason for being back in Connecticut, middle David's Bar Mitzvah. We enjoyed the party after the Bar Mitzvah - the photographer had some great shots. We also enjoyed the brunch the next day. Below you can see the three David's together - an historic moment transcending the generations.
As long as we were there, we took a few family shots. David, little David, Mom, Judy, and Vita. Bubbie is always smiling right? Yes - but this was an all out laughable moment. One of the waiters was jumping up and down, making faces to get David to smile for the photographer. It cracked us all up.
More family shots: Mom, Judy, Kirk, Max, David, Robyn, David, baby David, Vita, and Richard.
Later that evening, we found a great place for dinner. The Singapore's Grill and Sushi Bar. Robyn, Max, and Kirk picked some great sushi. I think it was the Singapore Roll.
Judy and David enjoyed the Roti Canai - no peanuts, just a curry sauce.
Little David saw it as an opportunity to practice with the chop sticks. Like usual, even the small things were a thrill for this little man. We had a great family time.

Israel 2008

2008-07-26T23:00:00.000-07:00

David Made it to Jerusalem this Year. We took a family trip to Israel in July 2008. The journey was long but well worth-while.

Tel Aviv University arranged a flat for us overlooking the beach. (David Senior gave a talk there and in Jerusalem during the week.) It was modern and beautiful (and big). We used it as our base station.

From there we went to: the beach across the street,

Casearea (the beach and the ruins),

Jerusalem (including the Kotel or wailing wall),

and points south. (The picture on the top left corner of this blog page is of David Junior and Senior at the Kotel - the wailing wall. The picture right above is of our family in Israel: David, David (little one), Summer, Bubbie, Ben, Bethami, and Eden. The picture below is of Eden not far from Jaffa Gate.)

Speaking of points south we rented a car and drove all the way down to Masada - where the Jews held the Roman army off. We walked on the mountain top and it was hot.

We went to the Dead Sea from there - where we could not sink - we just floated even with our hands and feet in the air. (That is because the salt content is so high you can not sink.) It was pretty cool.

Cool might not be the right word exactly. It was hot. I mean really hot. When we tried to leave the Dead Sea to go home the security system on our rental car would not work. That was not too good because the spa we used to shower was closing in 15 minutes. That would leave my mom of 81 years and the little man (now 1 year and 8 months) in some pretty serious heat for 2 hours while waiting for the car rental folks.

So I used my best (broken Hebrew) to explain the situation to the only folks in town with air conditioning (the spa), but they were not persuaded - until I explained in Hebrew how I had lived in Israel for a year on Kibbutz Ein Harod, Ichud. She said "you lived on a kibbutz, I live on a kibbutz." The Kibbutz Ein Gedi owned the spa we were showering up in (after floating in the Dead Sea). She said come with me and took the whole family up to the Kibbutz's "hotel". Who knew? It was like an oasis. It was beautiful and artistic and there was some serious food. So we had an extraordinary dinner while waiting for the car rental folks to come and save us in the desert. At that point who needed saving right. It was like a mini Shangri-la.

Well - no worries - they came, we made it home that night and the sight seeing continued with a visit to Bethami, Ben, and Eden (our relatives) who live between Tel Aviv and Jerusalem.
The entire trip was one we shall remember for the rest of our lives, even though it only planted a seed in little David's memory banks. This year David made the trip to Jerusalem - not too bad for a little man.

Disneyworld May 2008

2008-06-25T09:27:00.000-07:00

Magic Kingdom. Ok. We did it. We had a magical day or two or three. It was actually a lot of fun.

We had the little guy by day (and with the help of a babysitter while he was sleeping), we canvased the parks with special passes that minimized the wait.

Nightime was filled with the "adult" high speed or high acceleration rides, from the racing car to the house of terror (with the elevator drop a bit unexpectedly and erratically).

We also spent time at Epcot. The international flavor, the authentic buildings, and the great food were a real treat.

By the way, do you see a resemblance between the big dome and the little dome? Coincidence? I think not.

Speaking of domes, Summer got her head or I should say face painted. I am pretty sure they wanted to recruit her to join the parade. She said she was busy with the "boys" or maybe she said the "men" - really "big" men right David. In any case, she stayed with us as we went from one "magical" moment to another.

We also went to the Animal Kingdom and went on a safari. It was very cool. Along the way we strolled by a few friends. I am still trying to figure out why David would not go wading in the water with me while I was there. Seemed like plenty of rocks to sun ourselves on. Maybe I should have worn my glasses while I was there . Who knows. That kid gets spoked by the darn'dist little things.
David loved these tigers.

At night it was time to catch a carriage and they had some pretty cool carriages.

By the end of the day (or week in this case), we made it full circle. Sort of like the circle of life.

What you did not see the Lion King musical - Kakuna Matata - (translation: no worries).

Potty Time June 2008

2008-06-25T00:35:00.000-07:00

A Milestone. Yes - it is official. The little man is beginning his marathon training - potty training. Check back with us sometime before 3 years of age and we should be really at the end of this journey.

He is actually doing very well. He lets us know when things are happening and then we run to the toilet. We made it this morning and this evening. Quite the achievement. Although he does not show it - he is proud.

Summer has the Elmo potty training disk going all the time in the car on the way to day care. He seems to like it - he loves Elmo - so what's not to like about potty training - right?

As I say, check back in down the road and we will keep you posted on this one. Just a minute - looks like it is time to get up.

Spash Time (18 months)

2008-05-11T00:55:00.001-07:00

Splash Time at the Fetterman Home! This man just loves water. He can be playing at the faucet, the water table at day care, or even (yes when he can get past us) the toilet. (No worries - it is clean but we wash those hands immediately when it does happen. Keeping track of this little man is a full time job and you wonder what keeps us so busy on the weekends.)

In any case, when it comes to water, his all time favorite is bath time. The routine is: 1) dinner, 2) bath time, 3) reading, and 4) bedtime. Of the list you can imagine what he loves the most. Just in case you are having difficulties imagining just how excited this little man gets take a look by double clicking on the picture above in the left hand corner. You will enjoy and participate in his excitement. (My only warning - get a towel to keep yourself covered - you will need it.)

Walking: Yes He is Taking His First Steps (March 2008)

2008-03-29T00:59:00.001-07:00

Walking. Yes - the little man is taking his first steps. A bit shaky but proud. He is an interesting lad. Mostly he walks when he thinks we are not looking. Our guess is that he still likes to be held. Why not? Don't we all like to be held just a little longer?

Take a look at his steps today (just click on the picture in the left hand corner). Our day care providers at Stanford are great। They captured a few of his first steps this month on their video camera.

Just click on the picture above to see a brief video of his first big steps. (Watch out for the nose dive at the end, but live and learn right?)

We may as well enjoy the video now - because mom and dad will be really exhausted pretty darn soon - chasing this little man around. Ok even more exhausted, if that is imaginable. One small step for David and one giant step emotionally for us, but it is nice to see him grow and progress - putting his best foot forward so to speak.

Parents Night Out (February 29, 2008)

2008-03-11T11:35:00.000-07:00

Parents Night Out. Day care offers parents affordable baby sitting once or twice a month. They see it as a healthy contribution to the family and their overall mental health.

What do most parents do on parents’ night out? Well, we have gone to the movies, enjoyed a hot tub, and experienced a relaxing massage. But does this look like one of those nights?

Take a look at what we thought might be fun on a Parents' Night Out (Friday night).

Yes - we are flying. Instead of jumping out of a plane, we entered a wind tunnel. It was pretty cool. There was a guide to teach us, but basically we are flying - just depends on whether we put our hands and legs up or down that determined which way the rest of our bodies were going to go.

No worries - David was the life of the party at day care that night - everyone loved the baby!

Half Moon Bay

2008-03-10T15:28:00.000-07:00

Half Moon Bay

We may lead a pretty busy life but we do take a moment to enjoy where we are – only a half hour away from the beach. So off we go to Half Moon Bay.

The view is spectacular – we love going to the vista point (the site of the old Chart House).

You can see the little man right behind me. The one with the funny hat.

David takes to the sand like a duck to water. I guess that should have been an ocean metaphor like the surf to the sea, or surfer to the wave or something, instead of pond reference, but what the heck, he loves it.

Mom was nearby to supervise, but it was apparent he didn’t even notice us after a while and was quite content to just go at it. This is one independent little man.

Made for a nice shot at the beach with a beautiful background. He is right at home wherever he is.

Watch out! He is coming. Look at this man go!

Valentine's Day

2008-03-10T15:08:00.002-07:00

Guess what mom brought home for Valentine's Day?

You guessed it - lobster! David did not know exactly what to make of it. His dad sure did.

Mom enjoyed it, while the little guy was busy with his veggie hot dogs - seems fair to me.

Dad remembered the saying - something about "the way to man's heart is through his stomach." Way to go Babe! (Yes - I brought her flowers and had them sent to work - what did you think?)

A Day In the Life of Little David (Breakfast - at 15 months) (part 1 of 6)

2008-03-10T14:39:00.001-07:00

A Day In the Life of Little David (Breakfast)

This is a day in the life sort of collection of brief moments of little David at age 15 months. It is really a composite to help us remember what a “typical” (albeit compressed) day is like. The typical day will change and we will change along with it, but in the meantime why not lock this life in our minds if for what really is only for a few seconds out of a lifetime.

Breakfast (between 7:30-8:00)

Breakfast can be a challenge. But it has been a treat with the company of Latke Larry.

Click on picture of Latke Larry and David to hear a brief clip of the tune.

David loves this guy. It distracts him just enough (but not too much) to keep him eating. Of course, we have heard his lyrics (yes he sings) approximately one and a half million times. Here is a sample (if you listen carefully you can hear mom singing along in the background):

“I have tales of Maccabees and plenty of calories…Celebrate our history, how we survived is still a mystery…. You - stop eating my latkes.”

What can I say other than, thanks Latke Larry. You help our guy eat more than I do these days. He was eating my eggs and now I am making him two of his own scrambled eggs each morning, plus toast, and milk.

A Day In the Life of Little David (Getting Ready - at 15 months) (part 2)

2008-03-10T14:29:00.000-07:00

Time to Get Ready for Day Care

Getting ready for day care is called “time management 101”. After changing David and getting him dressed, it is time to change into my suit and tie. What does David do while waiting for dad? Well there is the toilet paper unraveling activity.

There is the "dad, I am stuck under the chair ritual".

And what would the morning be like without the "what’s in this closet that I can pull down routine." (I am omitting the obligatory lets watch dad's tie (on the rotating tie rack) experience, just because it is so routine.)

Then we have to run. (If we have that rare leisurely morning, then there is time for a bit of regular fun and of course computer time. But then we really have to go.)

Now -how do you say no to this kind of curiosity - computers - come on. (Ok so he knows how to bend us around his finger - just a bit.)

A Day In the Life of Little David (Arboretum) (part 3)

2008-03-10T14:24:00.000-07:00

Arboretum (day care)

It’s off to day care – bright and early. It’s a great place. Everyone is so friendly. He loves it (especially Willow, one of his special day care providers).

David is having a ball.

Oh wait, it looks like its reading time again. Loves those books - no complaints here.

A Day In the Life of Little David (Play Time - at 15 months) (part 4)

2008-03-10T14:19:00.001-07:00

A Little Play Time

David has a bit of playtime before or after dinner. The hand print on his head is from day care. He loves finger painting.

He also has his own house – including doorway, doorbell, and mailbox. Wherever David puts his metaphorical hat, he calls home.

A Day In the Life of Little David (Dinner Time at 15 months) (part 5)

2008-03-10T11:47:00.001-07:00

Dinner Time

We often go out for dinner because it is easier. Peninsula Creamery is a real favorite (less than a half mile away from day care and pretty standard 50’s style food). However, we eat at home a fair amount of the time (which we should), because he has very little time before he runs out of energy (particularly with no nap during the day). On those (no nap days), we run home and get the food in front of him as fast as we can.

Sarah is usually busy with volleyball, choir, and homework (all around dinner time).

In addition, Sarah is driving these days (she is 16 years old) – so she is a pretty independent adolescent. However, we recently had a family meeting to make sure we reinstated family time each day to make sure we stay in touch we each other – you know, just how was your day, what’s homework look like, lets review that paper, and of course her personal life. Her world is a bit different from David’s life. It is important to pay attention to her special life as well. By the way she is already shopping for prom gowns. Take a look – she bought it with her own money. She is really turning out to be quite a young lady.

There are nights when she is around at dinner time and able to pitch in. She puts away the dishes and feeds her little brother while we are making dinner. David loves it – being fed by his big sister. Pretty darn cool.

A Day In the Life of Little David (Bath and Bed Time at 15 months) (part 6)

2008-03-10T11:13:00.000-07:00

Bath and Bed Time

This kid has a pretty charmed life. He even gets candles at bath time. (OK – it is really a distraction but it works.) Bathing by candle light. Life could be worse right?

Bath time is over but before we pull him out he has to show you one more new trick: he can stick his tongue out at you – very cute. You are coming out anyway little man.

Time for a little reading time and then bedtime (so mommy and daddy can get their rest). “One fish, two fish” and “good night moon” usually do the trick and then it is lights out.

Mikvah - December 19, 2007

2007-12-19T22:59:00.000-08:00

Mikvah. Today this Jewish boy took a dip in the Mikvah. Summer got some great shots. Little David loved it - big smiles all around.

It started with all of us in front of the Mikvah.

Once inside, David Senior took a quick shower and Summer got little David ready. He was stripped down to nothing - wow!

David senior stepped into the water with the little man in his arms. The water in a mikvah (much like a large bath or jacuzzi) has a mixture of two separate streams of water - city and rain water in this case. It was warm don't worry.

Rabbi Yoshi 's blessings and songs of joy filled the room and can still be heard (in my mind and on the video below).

Rabbi Yoshi

Click on picture to display video of Mikvah.

David senior carefully let the little man take an underwater dip in the mikvah (with a space apart for a second). Then only a moment later, the little man popped up a bit startled and grabbed his dad but with a big smile - "like I did it - that was cool dad." Really amazing to see how he was so happy.

We took care of the documentation certifying the immersion ceremony and back home we went. A little lunch was in order to celebrate and relax.

What a powerful family day - a real mitzvah!